Time and place
This has been an odd summer and not only because of the weather. I don't do very personal writing on this blog because it is far from anonymous and anyway I am not someone who shares very personal things a lot in ordinary life. Sometimes I read deeply revelatory blogs which share intimate feelings about the writer's life and their family and friends. They are always weirdly compelling but they also make me feel pretty uncomfortable. What if your mother in law finds out you think she is an evil old bat? What if the doctor's receptionist knows you think she is a little Hitler or your best friend discovers that you have told the world that her late night phone calls drive you nuts? I think the people you love and live with deserve some privacy and while I might tell you what they had for tea and whether they like fires because I am pretty sure they wouldn't mind my doing so, I wouldn't share anything very intimate. So suffice it to say that this ha...