Looking after things
A couple of years ago I wrote a number of posts on the year of being sixty two about the experience of getting older. I was interested in the sense that our generation, in our sixties, is rather different from the women who have gone before us. I don't remember my grandmother changing much from when I first remember her, when I think she was perhaps forty nine or fifty, to when she died at the age of seventy. At fifty she was already a solid little barrel shape, encased in her corset which made her feel like a little hard barrel when she hugged me, which was often. Her hair was already set in a tightly curled perm although I think at fifty she still had some of the red shade, which she handed onto my mother, which gently faded to white. My mother by contrast was immensely youthful looking so that the pictures of her at her sixtieth birthday show someone looking about fifteen years younger. She always said that she would age very suddenly when she got to seventy because she w