Here is the October extract from the year of being sixty two, rather late in the month! Eventually we all become orphans, unless we die young and leave others to cope with the mess. It’s odd then that it should be such a surprise. My mother’s death though was a surprise. One day she was apparently well, if tired, coping with my father’s motor neurone disease cheerily, orchestrating a move for them into an assisted living flat with customary energy and skill. The next day we were driving desperately behind the air ambulance that was taking her to Exeter, my father talking determinedly about how they would manage her convalescence, me with a cold pit of fear in my stomach. A major heart attack. She was dead in her nightie on the bed in the recovery room when we got there, her hair askew, marks on her chest and arms from where they had tried to revive her. She looked very small and very alone and totally gone. ...
Sounds a lovely day - enjoy the rest of your weekend.
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ReplyDeleteHave fun!
Ah. Home-made cheese scones. I think you did well to stop at 3.
ReplyDeleteThree cheese scones - you almost beat my record; only almost mind.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your family being home
sounds good - and busy. Obviously need those three scones to boost the energy levels!
ReplyDeleteI have no time to comment because I have to go and bath mine! (Theo).
ReplyDeleteI think you'd better have another scone if they're that good!
ReplyDeleteWe not only have the Welsh connection in common. Our Son is a Doctor married to a Doctor, and they have 2 dogs dogs!!
ReplyDeleteI love scones too!!
Busy planning the holiday this weekend. We are taking our Welsh friend with us. Very exciting.
Chrisartist
all sounds great..it was a lovely day and nice to see you all down Pwyll Gwyn woods..x m
ReplyDeleteBother. You've brought me out in guilt. Didcott said twice, this morning (rather whistfully) how much he'd like cheese scones today . . . but I forgot.
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BLiss indeed! Hope you chatted long and hard!
ReplyDeleteHi Elizabeth
ReplyDeleteI thought you were in Australia!!
We will be in Wales in September.
May I have a link to your cottage?
We stay in a farm cottage in Chepstow area but do travel around.
Chrisartist
Ps I wonder if I know your family here?
Just perfect, lovely the dog is visiting too...enjoy.
ReplyDeleteJust as life should be! Hope you are having wonderful fun with your family.
ReplyDeleteThose are the best five good things I have read in a long time. Have a good weekend.
ReplyDeleteCheese scones are the edible equivalent of Desert Island Discs - and I'd give up everything else for them. Your restraint was admirable.
ReplyDeleteSounds perfect - fraught weekend here, K is at the hospital in Poole.
ReplyDeleteYour cheese scones are delicious, if I close my eyes I can still taste them!
Hope the rest of the weekend is as restful and happy xx
Five EXCELLENT things :)
ReplyDeleteWonderful. Enjoy your family. Blogging can wait.
ReplyDeleteCheese scones? You just had to say that, didn't you? How am I going to face a bowl of cereal now?
ReplyDeleteSo nice to read such a happy post!
ReplyDeleteAlways good to see your children - my younger son and his family were here over the weekend too. CHeese scones are one of my favourite things, I agree that you did well to stop at three:)
ReplyDeleteExcellent post! So important to keep a balance.
ReplyDeleteCan't believe you put crocus before cheese scones. You need to reassess your priorities!
ReplyDeleteA good five things I think. Have a lovely time with your family Elizabeth x
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love cheese scones. Now you've whet my appetite I've gotta go and make some (and probably eat them all too). Drat!
ReplyDeleteYou didn't ask but here are my five happy things about today:
ReplyDelete1. I got my hair cut off and I love it.
2. Colin Firth's Oscar.
3. All the buds pushing up out of the earth and the plants considering blooming, on my long walks.
4. I no longer do the book-keeping at work. Yippee!
5. I know what we're having for tea.
Sounds perfect.
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